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Do not raise your children to be guests in your house (do not make them disabled)

Do not raise your children to be guests in your house - AWRAQ Community Leaves

A scene that is repeated in every house of a young man or young woman in the prime of life while they are in full health and wellness and live with their family, they wake up in the morning and leave their bed without arrangement, so the mother will take care of that .. He changes his clothes and leaves them for washing scattered in any nook or corner .. He is offered food to eat before That or after that, and he does not tire himself by washing a cup or saucer.

Sometimes, in his spare time, he may be generous to sit with the rest of his family while carrying his mobile phone, which he does not leave, in order to remain present, close to his friends, with whom he spends most of his time.

Are there guests in our house or are they helpless !!

What we are talking about in this article does not contribute and does not participate in any responsibility in the house, even with a little thing, he leaves the place in chaos, and gets angry if he does not like dinner, and if he sees something in the house that requires repair, arrangement or replacement, he passes by his side as if he did not see anything.

I thought about what I saw around me and came to one conclusion:

I think we have succeeded in creating a handicapped generation, yes, a handicapped generation, and above!

We now have a generation, most of whom act as a guest who does not help, does not contribute, and does not bear any responsibility, and the father and mother remain under the burden of responsibilities for the home even with age and weakness of the body, as parents do not want to tire the children.

Appreciating and accepting responsibility is an upbringing that you plant in your children, do not create them suddenly or even after marriage, because after marriage they will carry the culture that they acquired from the house in which they were brought up, and what culture that, the culture of disability .., dependency and therefore a generation that is never dependent on building a home Or a family or take responsibility for a wife and children.

Dear Guardian:

If your son or daughter gets used to taking on some responsibilities at home, it helps build his personality and build a socially responsible generation. Taking responsibility makes them stronger and helps them face what will come to them in the future, and it helps you to rely on them and helps them think about others, which makes them less selfish, more appreciative and effective in their homes and surroundings. It is their job and their society in the future, while their dependence on them makes them lazy, weaker and more superficial, and they do not prepare anything for their future.

And finally, mother and father:

If you do not raise your son to take responsibility in your home, the world will be used !, But the lessons of this world will be traumatic and late, less affectionate and more cruel than you, so help him with it and do not be of help to him in it.

Do not raise your son or daughter to be guests in your home, but rather their Lord to be an aid to you, and doers in your home, then their homes, and their society, and we ask God to help us in raising and fixing us and fixing our lives.

My advice to you:

Do not do for your child something that he is able to accomplish on his own, because you teach him to depend instead of relying on himself, and by that you are making a mentally and intellectually handicapped child.

Enough of us exporting people to society who depend on (mother - wife - sister - maid). Work and self-service are not a defect, and the defect is dependency, mothers.

The Umayyad Calipha Umar bin Abd Al-Aziz was with his companions at night, and a wind blew that extinguished the lamp, so he got up and lit it, and they said: If I command one of us, O Commander of the Faithful !, he said: "it would not harm me, I got up while I was Omar and I came back while I was Omar".!

Prepared Izdehar Rahmow

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